Safal Kaise Ho --:: How To Be Successful

SAFALTA kabhi achanak nahi ati, ise pane ke liye Struggle karne padta hai.. agar aap life me success pana chahte hai to iske liye kuch important points par apko gaur karna tatha unko apni lige me importance dena padega 

 1-  Sapne (Dreams)

sapne(dreams) aur jarurte hi apko kisi bhi kam ko karne ke liye prerit karte hai, jab tak apke samne sapne(dreams) yaa jaroorat nahi honge, tab tak aap koi bhi kam shiddat se nahi karenge.. sapne(dreams) apke likhe hone chahiye aur aapki diwar pr chipke hone chahiye, taki aap har time aate-jaate,, uthte-baithte unko dekh sake.., is duniya me jo kuch naya bana hai, vah kisi na kisi ka sapna(dream) raha hoga.. isliye sapne dekhe, unhe pahchane aur fir unhe kagaj pr likhe.. isse aap unke prati sajag rahege..

    

                                           

                                                                

                     2- Lakshya (Target)

sapno(dreams) ke baad dusra kadam hota hai  LAKSHYA(TARGET)..  jab tak target nirdharit nahi hoga, tab tak apke dreams keval dreams bankar hi rah jayege.. jaise football player ball ko lekar bhag raha hai lekin jaise hi vah pair uthata hai ball ko marne ke liye, to dekhta hai ki goal post hi nhi hai to vah kha marega.. isliye Lakshya(target) banaye aur pratyek week usko reright karte rahe.. isse kam karne me maza bhi ayega aur success bhi jaldi milegi...

 Yh bhi padhe== Asafalta Apne Ap Me Ek Safalta Hai

                                                 

                     3- Yojna (Plan)

kamyabi ke mukam tak pahunchne ki shuruat plan se hoti hai.. agar apne decide kiya hai ki mujhe Doctor, Engineer, yaa businessman banna hai to uske liye sabse pahle planning kare,, isse apko pata rahega ki abhi kitna kam karna baki hai.. planning karke kam karne se apka time aur mehnat(hard work) dono bachege

                                                        

                                                                                             4- Vishvas (Trust)

apko khud par vishvas hona chahiye ki jo bhi aap kam karne jaa rahe hai, use kar payenge.. yadi apko self confidence nhi hoga to aap vh kam kabhi bhi nhi kar payenge.. jyadatar logo ko khud par vishvas hi nhi hota aur ve kam start kr dete hai.. fir baad me unhe lagta hai ki vah nhi kar payenge aur bich me hi chhod dete hai.. isliye khud pr vishvas(trust) hona bahut jaroori hai.. vishvas hoga, tabhi aap kam kr payenge aur successful ban payenge..

                                                             

                      5- Karya (Work)

achha aap socho ki apke dream hai, goal hai, planning hai aur vishvas bhi hai lekin aap us par kam hi na kare to kya apke sapne aur jaroorte poori hongi.. isliye apne lakshya ke anusaar kadam badhaye, kyoki lakshya aur kamyaabi hasil karne ke liye yh bahut jaruri hai ki aap uske anuroop hi kaam kre.. kai baar aisa hota hai ki ham bahut jyada hardwork karte hai lekin disha sahi na hone ke karan apne lakshya tak jaldi nahi pahunch pate.. aise me yh aur bhi jaroori ho jata hai ki hamari sonch aur hamare karm me ekroopta ho...

     To bhaiyo aap jis success ko paane ka dream aap daily dekhte hai use hasil karne ke liye jaroori kadmo ko ek jagah note kre aur ek ke bad ek seedhiya chadhe.. aap khud ko hr din apne manjil ke kareeb ata hua payenge...

    

                             

                        DHANYA WAD

upar jitni bhi baate likhi gayi hai unhe bahut great logo ki life se, unke anubhavo se nikalkar yaha tak pahunchaya gaya hai so plz aap inko apni life me jaroor use kare aur agar apko kuch poonchna ho to plz comment me mujhe bataye

Alochnao(criticism) Se Na Ghabaraye --:::

Darasal alochnao(criticism) ko jhelne ki khubi apko mansik taor pr majboot banati hai.. yadi apke ander yh gud(quality) nhi hai to aap apni mansic majbooti yani mental tufness kho denge aur apki chamta(capacity) aur urjaa(energy) bhi km ho jayegi.. aise me apke liye apne kam me apna 100% de pana mushkil ho jayega.. yh sthiti(situation) career ke lihaj se ghatak hogi.. isliye khud ke andar alochnao(criticism) ko jhelne ka hunar viksit kre,, jiske liye kuch baato pr dhyaan dena jaroori hai,,.....




                                                 Alochnao(Criticism) ko muskurakar le


 

yadi koi apke samne hi apki alochna karta hai to us par apni narajgi na jataye,, balki aap yh dikhaye ki aap pr iska koi asar nhi hua aur aap bilkul normal hai.. aap un alochnao ko muskurakar talne ki koshish kre dhyan de ki apke office,school, yaa colllege me aapke samarthak aur viridhi samooh hote hai,, isliye apke hr achhe kary pr apko prasansa to milegi,, lekin apka virodhi group apki alochna bhi krega.. aise me bevajah  ki jane wali alochnao ko ek muskurahat ke sath najar andaj krna hi behtar hoga



                                               

       Alochna Ka possitive point dhundhe

yadi kisi kary ke liye apki prasansa(praise)  aur alochna(criticism) dono ho rahi hai to alochna ka sakaratmak(possitive) point bhi dhundhne ka prayas kre... yadi kisi bhi prakar se apko lagta hai ki alochna me dam hai to use sakaratmak roop me le aur koshish kre ki agli baar apke apke kam me vh kami na rahe ,, jiske liye apki alochna ki gyi hai.. yh apke personality ko aur bhi akarsak aur prabhavsaali banayega


                                         

    Nervous Na Ho ----- Don't be nervous

virodhi group apke achhe kam ki bhi alochna kr aap pr dabav banane ki koshish karega,, taki aap nervous ho jaye aur apke kam par iska nigative iffect pade.. student life me to kai baar aap aisi baato ka samna karenge..agar aap medhavi hai to ho sakta hai ki apka koi friend bevajah apki alochna kare,,taki aap nervous ho jaye aur iska apki study pr asar pade..office me bhi kuch log isi maksad se alochna karte hai,,isliye alochnao ke samne patience khone se achha hai ki aap unko face kre..kisi bhi haal me aap nervous na ho..

                                           

   Khud Auro Ki Alochna Na Kare

hame apni alochna buri lagti hai to hame dusro ki alochna karne se bhi bachna chahiye.. dhyan rahe ki dusro ki bevajah alochana hamari image ko hi dhumil karti hai aur hamare khilaf ek nigative mahol taiyaar hota hai..aise me log hamare sath ghulna milna pasand nahi karenge,, jo career ke lihaj se ghatak hoga


                                

        Sakaratmak Alochna Sveekare                       (Take Possitive Criticism)

kai baar apki alochna ki vajah sahi hoti hai..aise alochak apki alochna apki ninda ke liye nahi,,balki apki bahtari ke liye karte hai..apko aise alochako ko pahchan karna sikhna hoga aur inki sakaratmak alochnao ko sabke samne khul kar sveekar karna hoga...isse auro ki najar me apki image aur bhi behtar hogi aur apke liye ek sakaratmak mahol taiyaar hoga


   

 In sabhi baato par ek baar gaur kare aur ho sake to dheere dheere inhe apni life me envolv karna sikhe....